being nice

when's the last time u did something nice for someone without wantin something in return?

theres this old lady lol up my block..i go help her do her groceries and stuff. i dont really expect anything in return cause wen me n sis was younger n my parents were at work she used to come n check on us n make sure we're okai and stuff. plus she lives with her really hot grand daughter..damn that gurl is on fire...

- I help out the needy children.
- I help my mum (thats why I am not working, she'll ill and I have to take care of her and the house)
- Many more.

Seriously, I don't know. I have helped people and still helping but I don't like counthing them. I just try my best to do good.
Many people who have know me..know what I am doing. I don't really like knowing...lolz..
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lolz..thank you..

i do volunteer work...

workin at the hospital
babysit
and lil lil stuff

I can't remember what the last nice thing I did for someone was.... maybe when I helped my mom clean up?? lol but some guy was nice to me in the train last night because he saw me crying. He asked me if I needed help and I shook my head no and he told me whatever it is it can't be that bad and I still have life and he told me to smile because I'm too beautiful for that (he was just being nice). Usually people don't care, or if they do they don't say anything.

Awww....why were you crying? And you are beautiful so don't cry....always put a smile on your face.

Beverly89 wrote:

Awww....why were you crying? And you are beautiful so don't cry....always put a smile on your face.

Aww thanks.

Kinda long story... drama with my dad, there's always drama with my dad. Dealing with him is just too stressful.

You're welcome.

I know how some dads are like including mine.

hmmmm <<thinks hardly>>

Beverly89 wrote:

You're welcome.

I know how some dads are like including mine.

lol well trust me, none can compare to mine and I think anyone that knows me would agree with that. You can't talk to the man, he has no understanding, you can't have a conversation with him without it turning into an argument, he jumps to conclusions about things without having any facts to back up his thinking, he get's into arguments with everyone... the list can go on and on...

and still I worry about the man.

Thursday was the first time I actually spoke back to him and spoke up for myself.

God, if you're out there, HELP ME

What exactly is being nice mean? When you just stay quiet and let people walk all over you? Some people try so hard to be nice and to be loved and accepted by everyone that they lose their "self".
You did the right thing in talking back. If you don't do it now then you will have to do it later wen you be more hurt.
Who said you don't have to cry because you are beautiful? beautiful people cry too.
being sweet and nice all the time dont mean people will always love you. You have to stand up for yourself. noone else will

brukup wrote:

What exactly is being nice mean? When you just stay quiet and let people walk all over you? Some people try so hard to be nice and to be loved and accepted by everyone that they lose their "self".
You did the right thing in talking back. If you don't do it now then you will have to do it later wen you be more hurt.
Who said you don't have to cry because you are beautiful? beautiful people cry too.
being sweet and nice all the time dont mean people will always love you. You have to stand up for yourself. noone else will

Thanks, I don't know how I could be any more hurt if I wait to speak up though... (no wait actually I do )

I guess the quote "nice guys finish last" goes with everything you said.

"Some people try so hard to be nice and to be loved and accepted by everyone that they lose their "self"."

I agree, a lot of people just stay quiet and don't let their voices and feelings be heard because they're scared of what other people will think or have to say about it. Even if they don't lose their "self" they hide it from the world so other people don't get to see who they really are.

You're right being nice and sweet all the time won't mean that people will always love you... regardless of how nice you are, there will always be people out there that don't like you for some reason or the other.

angel_gurl wrote:

workin at the hospital
babysit
and lil lil stuff

lol @ lil lil stuff....could you elaberate on this alittle please?

lolzz...being nice huh Candy...lil stuff...

lloll candy lil stuff

I gave Dis person 20 dollars yesterday he had aids as he claim and he was pooor

awww...thats nice....


These ppl wid AIDS really need our help.

i bought a gift for my gf and helped ppl wid their home work

i bathe my cat suzy lol yaaay

well last year me and my friend sonia build a leomande stand to raise money for the animal shelter