Abortion

Ok! Well as you girls said its the female's decision.

to abort or not to abort

ABORTION IS WRONG I HATE THE THOUGHT OF ABORTION AND IF PPL IS TOO YOUNG TO HAVE BABIES WHY THEY HAVING SEX

Nice point there Nancy...!!

its wrong 2 abort .... abstain if 2 young or use a condom if ur not ready for a kid

Beverly89 wrote:

Nice point there Nancy...!!

thanks hun

you're welcome....

awwww nancy nice pic
that was a good point

aww thanks hun

my friend sonia is gettin an abortion because she said she do not wanna raise a child in this world knowing there father ia a playa he cheated on her mulitple times she even walked in when he was havin sex and he denied it still she said every child deserve to have the best father one that would love dem but he's just a manwhore and once a playa always a playa do u think dis is a good idea? they suppose to get married next week because he got her pregnant and the mother and father think he's a good boy but now sonia gonna tell the parents what he truly is

Well, I think she should not get an abortion.
He's not a good boy and she don't have to marry him. She could have this child and still get a good man. In addition, why did she had sex over and over with him knowing that he's a player?
U know not every child has a mother or has a father. And hey, she is young and we all know there are men that will accept her even if she has a child.
For example, my father. My mother have 2 children for another man and my father still accepted her (you know why because of her personality and the way she treats him and he treats her) now he had educated those children and the other day one of them had an operation and he paid. He took those boys and his own kids.
What am I trying to say. She will find someone to accept her like that. Because God made someone of everyone.

thats a good point hun

i talked to her about it and shes really sad shes depressed she haven't ate or drink anything she vomiting constantly and she found out yesterday she have walking namonia i'm really worried about her

Nancy talk to her more often. Let her know that she still has a friend with her throughout her problems. Let her know that she has someone to cry to. Don't let her do anything that she'll regret. And get her to eat something.
Is she working?
Just keep talking to her about happy times and not let her be depressed because she might get a depression disorder.

yeah i'm dere for her but dis is too much for me and seeing her cry just makes me give up hope i see the pain in her eyes i just want her 2 be healthy and strong

Well today I heard something which kinda depressed me.
One of my close friend ran away from home and I heard she's 2 weeks pregnant.
I called her parents cuz her parents and I are okay. They said that she pissed them off.
I didn't get to talk to her. I found out where she's living today and I might go tomorrow. I hope she don't take an abortion.
I can't believe she did that, not out of all the talks we have. And I blamed it on myself, I should have been there for her more often.

aww dats is depressing

Its depressing and disappointing.

aww don't tek on bev

Beverly89 wrote:

Well today I heard something which kinda depressed me.
One of my close friend ran away from home and I heard she's 2 weeks pregnant.
I called her parents cuz her parents and I are okay. They said that she pissed them off.
I didn't get to talk to her. I found out where she's living today and I might go tomorrow. I hope she don't take an abortion.
I can't believe she did that, not out of all the talks we have. And I blamed it on myself, I should have been there for her more often.

bev u did the best u cud..dunt blame urself

Ammi....I cried...I really cried...She's like my sister.....(right now I am typing this..tears r still coming out)......

Thanks tho..

What is happening and has happened for a long time now is people shying from their responsibilities.
You can't do things without properly thinking through them first. Sex has effects and ppl know that, they claim they know everything sometimes when anyone offers advice and yet go and screw up their lives.
Abortion itself is a sin and should not be tolerated unless the life of the mother is in danger. Some will argue that it's the woman's choice but it really isn't. It's her actions that caused that life but she didnt create the life and that's a major difference.

Beverly89 wrote:

Well today I heard something which kinda depressed me.
One of my close friend ran away from home and I heard she's 2 weeks pregnant.
I called her parents cuz her parents and I are okay. They said that she pissed them off.
I didn't get to talk to her. I found out where she's living today and I might go tomorrow. I hope she don't take an abortion.
I can't believe she did that, not out of all the talks we have. And I blamed it on myself, I should have been there for her more often.

You shouldn't blame yourself because you weren't the one that put her in that situation. She did. As much as you could have been there for her, you couldn't stop her from doing something if she wanted to do it. Well i don't know all the details but you shouldn't blame yourself.

I think that the side people take on abortion is affected a lot by their beliefs in God... and that's not something I'm about to start arguing about because once people believe something it's hard to get them to see other perspectives. Discussions about God can bring out the devil in people.

I don't understand why people wanna be all big and bad rushing into sex and not cater for the 9month after effect, if your willing to have sex then you should be willing to take care of the baby, it's just that simple, if your not ready to take care of a baby keep ur sexual feelings on a low,cause all you do is put more pain and suffering upon yourself by taking an abortion, so my suggestion is, if you ready for a baby then you should feel free to have sex, if not then keep ur hermones down.

N.B : Protected sex, try to stick with one person and not go around the place with everyone.

lol kevin wan do abortion